When a child turns sixteen there is a universal feeling of excitement over the prospect of getting their drivers license. Dreams of freedom and independence race through their minds as the giddily await the day where mom and dad hand over the keys. While teenagers dream – mom and dad have nightmares worrying about whether or not they will be safe on the road. Fear of car accidents and reckless driving race through their mind as they await that dreaded moment when Junior asks for the keys.
Many states have enacted laws to help keep teen drivers safe by requiring them to gradually work their way up to complete driving access. Regardless of what your state requires parents have the right, and should, make rules of their own. Your teen may protest but it is better to have an angry teenager than an injured or dead one. Over 5,000 teens die in car accidents every year –more than from any other cause. It is critical that parents take enforcing safe driving practices seriously in order to keep their children safe. Yes, turning 16 is an exciting time and one to look forward to but turning 17 is even more important.
Here are some things you can do to protect your kids:
- Driving Classes. It is essential for teens to take a drivers education course. They need to learn the rules of the road, classroom style, then practice driving with an instructor. Driving can be dangerous so working with an instructor in a safe environment is critical. They need to learn how to do things like quickly break, use their turn signal, use their mirrors etc. before ever driving on the road.
- Defensive Driving. Teens need to practice looking for potential accidents. One way to do that is to have them look for dangers while riding with you. Have them point out potential hazards like children playing with the basketball or the stop sign that cars often run. They need to recognize the dangers of the road so that they can respond quickly.
- Practice. Have your teen practice with you or another adult in the car for a couple months. A few times out is simply not enough. Make sure they are driving like a pro before you stop riding with them.
- Cell Phones. Do not let your teen drive with a cell phone. Demand that they place it in the glove box or out of reach so that if it goes off they are not tempted to check a text and use a phone while driving. Cell phones contribute to 28% of accidents and allowing them to use one while driving is a receipe for disaster.
- Friends. Establish a rule that they cannot drive with friends for the first six months. Having friends in the car may cause your teen to push the limit to show off or cause them to be distracted. Keep them safe by allowing them to drive solo.
- Curfew. Do not let your teen drive late at night. Determine what time you are comfortable with and enforce a curfew. That curfew may be earlier than one they have now but driving while tired can have the same effect as driving drunk. Do not put your teen at risk by letting them drive late.
Talk to your teen about what to do in the event that they are in an accident. Make sure they have an insurance agent and the agents contact information with them at all times. It is also a good idea to have an attorney on hand for emergencies. Most teens get into some type of car accident, even if a minor bump in the parking lot. Having an attorney on hand to call allows your teen to receive instructions on how to handle the accident. Attorneys like Davis, Saperstein & Salomon offer free consultations so there is no harm in calling. Stress with your teen the importance of staying safe and that as they prove they are responsible they will gradually gain more freedom on the road.


